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After the Affair: To Stay or To Leave?

Was Hillary Clinton wrong for staying with her husband, Bill, after yet another affair—this time with a White House intern? Personally, I don’t think it’s anybody’s business what she chose to do, but as a public figure, Ms. Clinton was the object of much gossip. In past generations, there was pressure to stay in the… Read More

When It’s Not Okay to Talk

Do you remember any of these phrases from your childhood? “Quit being a baby!” “Take it like a man!” “Don’t upset me with your problems!” “Don’t you know I’m too busy with your father/sister/brother to deal with you right now?” It may have been inadvertent, but you got the message somewhere along the line that… Read More

When Your Partner Won’t Go to Therapy

What do you do when you’ve done all you can? Despite repeated promises to stop having affairs or talking in chat rooms or sexting with a coworker, your partner continues. There’s a pattern—what seems like an addiction. Your partner says, no, everything’s fine. Or that this is normal in a marriage, even though the two… Read More

The First Question to Ask

What brought you to this place? It may or may not be the first question that I as your therapist will ask you, but it’s a revealing question that you might ask yourself. What brought you to the place where you’re ready to begin working on your sex addiction? What brought you to the place… Read More