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ABOUT

You are the expert on your own life.

One of the greatest regrets that many people have is that they never became the person they wanted to be. I’m passionate about helping you uncover your true potential and move beyond the barriers that are holding you back.

What it’s like to work with me…

Two realities to consider. On the one hand, you know more about yourself than anyone else. You are the best expert on yourself. You know what’s inside your head and heart. You know the mistakes you’ve made and the resulting lessons you’ve learned. And, most importantly, your instincts tell you when you’re going in the wrong direction – away from your needs and goals and dreams.

On the other hand, it’s also true that if you are struggling with an addiction or other out-of-control behavior, you may have what’s sometimes called “stinking thinking” going on. Your addictive way of thinking – minimizing or justifying your behavior – may have gotten you into a really bad place where you can’t figure your way out of it. So, you need someone with expertise and experience to help you find the next right steps. You are the one who is going to live with the decisions that you make, so you should have control over the process. But you need someone who can ask difficult questions at times or invite you to consider a certain course of action. In the end, you make the final determination.

I strive to be fully present with you in your sessions and to be comfortable with difficult emotions. When you feel cared for, you’re better able to let down your walls and talk about the difficult or scary issues – the things that need care and attention.

 

About Me

My name is Tim, and I have specialized training in the treatment of sex & porn addiction, alcohol & drug addiction, and gaming & internet addiction. I also work with infidelity recovery & betrayal trauma, complex trauma/PTSD (EMDR), depression and anxiety. Not just endless talk, talk, talk that goes nowhere. I use multiple evidence-based mental health treatments combined with genuine compassion and care so that my clients feel better sooner. If they’re open to it, I often give my clients specific handouts or homework to do during the week.

I take a sex-positive and LGBTQ+ safe approach, providing a non-judgmental and confidential environment. I am respectful of my clients’ needs, perspective, and values. I work with both religious and non-religious clients.

My many years of professional work in helping others and my own personal growth – seeking and finding solutions to my own challenges – form the foundation of what I offer my clients.

Education:

  • Currently pursuing a Doctor of Philosophy (PhD) in Health Sciences degree (dissertation in Addiction Studies) at Faulkner University
  • Master of Social Work (MSW) – University of North Carolina Wilmington
  • Master of Divinity (MDiv) – Gettysburg Seminary (now United Seminary)
  • Bachelor of Arts (BA) – Lenoir-Rhyne College (now Lenoir-Rhyne University)

Certifications and Trainings:

  • Board Certified Sexologist (#23859), The American Board of Sexology
  • Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals
  • Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals
  • Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist (CMAT), International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals
  • EMDR Trained Therapist, EMDR Institute (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) for Treatment of Addictions with Frank Anderson, MD
  • Emotional Focused Therapy (EFT) Externship
  • Sex Offender Treatment Provider (SOTP) training, International Trauma Training Institute (ITTI)
  • Certified Facilitator, Prepare & Enrich Marital & Premarital Inventory
  • Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), North Carolina Social Work Board
  • Certificate in Nonprofit Management, Duke University

Advanced Sex Addiction & Partner Trauma Therapy Training Under:

  • Stefanie Carnes, PhD, CSAT-S – President of the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals
  • Kenneth Adams, PhD, CSAT – Clinical director and founder of Kenneth M. Adams and Associates
  • Kevin Skinner, PhD, CSAT – Co-founder and clinical director of Addo Recovery
  • Alexandra Katehakis, PhD, MFT, CSAT-S, CST-S – Clinical director of the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles
  • Debra L. Kaplan, MA, MBA, LPC, CSAT-S – A licensed therapist, author, and speaker
  • Sheri Keffer, PhD, MFT, MAT, CCPS – A licensed marriage and family therapist, author, and speaker
  • Mari A. Lee, MA, LMFT, CSAT-S, CPTT-S – A licensed marriage and family therapist, author, and speaker
  • Piper Grant, PsyD, CSAT – Founder of Numi Wellness

Licensed In:

  • North Carolina
  • District of Columbia
  • Florida

Active Memberships:

  • International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals
  • The American Board of Sexology
  • International Trauma Training Institute
  • EMDR Institute