by Tim Martin | Mar 4, 2026 | Uncategorized
One of the most common statements betrayed partners make after discovering pornography use or sexual betrayal is: “You couldn’t have really loved me and done those things.” To the betrayed partner, this conclusion feels obvious. Love and betrayal seem fundamentally...
by Tim Martin | Feb 17, 2026 | Uncategorized
When betrayal is discovered, the emotional landscape of a relationship changes instantly. What was once familiar becomes unpredictable. What was once safe becomes threatening. And in the midst of that upheaval, the unfaithful partner is often confronted with something...
by Tim Martin | Mar 5, 2021 | Uncategorized
Why do sex addicts do what they do? How could they continue their acting out behavior when the consequences are so obvious to others? Family members and friends are often baffled. Examples include: Minimizing behavior that could lead to their arrest, loss of...
by Tim Martin | Jul 5, 2020 | Uncategorized
Suspended? Arrested? Caught cheating? Woke up in the Emergency Room after a super-binge? “How did I get here?” you ask. Not just, “How did I end up in the Emergency Room?” You know that. But, “What cycle led me here?” I definitely do not speak to you in judgment, but...
by Tim Martin | Jun 24, 2020 | Uncategorized
“You’ve broken my heart.” Your partner’s betrayal hits at the core of your being. Maybe the infidelity was a one-time event that occurred during a drunken evening, or it may have been quite intentional—months or years of texts, phone calls, romantic...
by Tim Martin | Sep 23, 2019 | Uncategorized
Was Hillary Clinton wrong for staying with her husband, Bill, after yet another affair—this time with a White House intern? Personally, I don’t think it’s anybody’s business what she chose to do, but as a public figure, Ms. Clinton was the object of much gossip. In...
